How to make the college experience a positive one

New college students getting to know each other in the first week.

The idea of college brings a mix of conflicting, and sometimes overwhelming emotions. From packing up your whole life to saying tearful goodbyes, the transition into college is full of emotional and logistical challenges. If you feel anxious during this process, don’t worry—you’re not alone. With a positive outlook and some helpful strategies, you can turn the daunting experience of college into a memorable and positive one.

  1. One of the biggest stressors during move-in is the packing process. To avoid last-minute chaos, start preparing in advance. Make an organized checklist of everything you’ll need—don’t forget the essentials such as bedding, toiletries, and kitchen supplies. Throw in some fun decorations too, or something that reminds you of home! Remember to pack smart: roll clothes to save space, use vacuum-sealed bags for bulky items, and keep important valuables in an easily accessible spot. Also, make sure to label boxes and bags so they are easier to identify on move-in day.

  2. When it comes to roommates, some people may already have a good relationship with their future roommate, while others might be starting with a complete stranger! Whatever the case, communication and mutual respect are crucial for a positive living arrangement. Work together to establish a list of expectations and ensure you both agree on them. This way, any potential conflicts can be resolved smoothly by referring to the boundaries you've already set.

  3. Staying organized in college is incredibly beneficial for your future self. It helps establish good habits, boosts efficiency, and increases productivity. Use a planner or a Google Sheet to keep track of assignments and deadlines, which can reduce stress and prevent anxiety about missing important tasks. Maintain a clean and organized living space with storage solutions and desk organizers to make it easier to find items and create a positive environment. There are many ways to organize your life that can make your college experience much smoother.

  4. Remember to prioritize self-care. This involves getting adequate sleep, staying hydrated, and taking breaks when needed during study sessions or throughout your day to reduce stress. Your mental health is crucial, so it’s perfectly okay to delay a homework assignment for a few hours if it means allowing yourself time for exercise or relaxation.

  5. Maintain a positive attitude. Embrace the new experiences that come with this exciting chapter of your life. Focus on the positives of this transition and seek out the good in your new surroundings. Whether it’s making new friends, joining a student club, exploring an interesting class, or enjoying newfound independence, allow yourself to appreciate and enjoy these positive changes.

  6. Remember to utilize your resources. Each university offers a variety of resources designed to support you and make your life easier. If you encounter confusion or need additional help, don’t hesitate to explore these campus resources. They are there to assist you, so make sure to take advantage of them and seek help when needed!

Making the most of your college experience involves embracing new opportunities with a positive attitude, staying organized, and prioritizing self-care. By utilizing campus resources, maintaining effective communication with roommates, and balancing your responsibilities, you set yourself up for a smoother transition and a more enjoyable journey. Remember, college is a time of growth, discovery, and excitement. With these strategies in place, you'll be well-equipped to navigate this transformative period and make the most of all the great experiences that come your way. Enjoy the adventure, and let each day contribute to the vibrant and fulfilling college life you’re creating!

Lakeside Counseling Center is rooting for you and your success and we are dedicated to providing a safe space for each individual to make your life easier and less stressful.

Here's why you should consider our services:

  • Experienced Therapists: Lakeside Counseling has a team of experienced and compassionate therapists who specialize in various areas of mental health.

  • Flexible Options: Whether you prefer virtual sessions for convenience or in-person sessions for a personal touch, Lakeside Counseling offers both options to suit your preferences.

  • Tailored Approach: Therapists at Lakeside Counseling understand that each individual's journey is unique. They will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that addresses your specific needs and goals.

  • Safe and Confidential: Your privacy is a priority. Lakeside Counseling provides a safe and confidential space for you to express yourself without judgment.

Your mental health matters and Lakeside Counseling is here to support you every step of the way. Don't hesitate to reach out and take that important step toward a healthier and happier college experience.

Contact us to set up an initial appointment. One of our specialists will follow up with some appointment times for the therapist of your preference. If you are having trouble deciding, we can help you determine which therapist might be a good fit, based on your therapy goals.

Katie Lindskog